Tough Love

the Dark Mirror: Reflections for Flawed Christians

Love is… at least on some level… emotion….

During stressful times… emotions run high….

During times of danger… accident… sickness… impending significant change in life circumstance such as marriage or divorce… during significant life change such as loss or change of job… death… financial hardship… even being lost trying to find a child’s sporting venue or get to the game or practice on time… human stress levels skyrocket….
Call it adrenaline.

During those times… we tend to fall off of the mountain top… back into our rut…. Our comfort zone….
We tend to want… strongly desire… STRONGLY desire… to do what historically works….
We tend to trust our gut….
If I am a Fixer… I will fix…. Make decisions. Because I trust myself and my decisions.
If I am a Failer… I will fail…. Fall apart. See no solution. Trust nobody. NO body….
Seek to avoid making any decisions. Dig…

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